Our Journey To You

This is the story of our adoption journey to our daughter Kaleigh in China


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Wednesday, November 29, 2006

Uplifting Trip to Target

I realized tonight (once again) how God truly knows when you need that uplifting moment. As most of you know this summer and fall have been incredibly busy for both Brent and I and it will not be getting any better until after the holidays. Well, I got home tonight and was really looking forward to a night at home alone while Brent was working. I had only been home about 15 minutes when Brent called to ask me to come to Target and buy some Christmas lights that he wants to try on the house this year. I was tired and really did not want to go and was frustrated that Brent wanted me to get back out to come to the store that he was already at to buy something that he could have bought himself. I had only just walked into the store and turned the corner and passed by a lady with a small dark haired child in her cart. Out of habit I looked to see if the child was Chinese. She was!!!! I walked on and then decided that I would go back and talk to the lady. As soon as she found out that we were in the process of adopting she was as excited to talk to me as I was to her. She introduced me to her daughter and shared some interesting bits of information with me about her trip. I called Brent on my way home and told him how it was just what I needed. Some people have told me how they hate to tell me things about children from China because they are afraid that it will make it harder for me but in all honesty when I talk to someone who has been down this road or I get to see a little girl from China it lifts me up. I think it is because it is conformation that there is an end to the wait and that it will work out and we will have our Kaleigh home in our arms someday in (hopefully) the near future.

Thursday, November 02, 2006

Update

I know everyone wants to know what is going on with the wait and when are we getting our referral. Well, as most of you know the news has been very discouraging lately with the referral time stretching out longer and longer. China finally updated their site to let everyone know how far they got this month. They finished 8/25/05. So we are still a ways out but this was a promising month, August is a very heavy month and no one expected China to get as far as they did so if they can keep up this rate maybe we will have our referral within the next six months. Yes, six months sounds like a very long time, but I have decided that I can endure it. I won't lie and say that the wait is not hard but most days I can deal with it. Kaleigh will be so worth it when she gets here. It may be much longer than another 6 months but right now that is what I am praying for. Anyone that will, we would appreciate any prayers that you can say to speed up this process and to help us deal with the difficulties of the wait.